Baring it all: the freedom and intimacy of shared male nudity
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By baring your body, you are not only shedding your clothes but also stripping away the layers of insecurity and self-doubt that often hold you back.
Some men are uncomfortable undressed in front of another man, unless it’s for sex… and even then. Everyone has body issues.
In my experience, even the kind of guy your legs go weak at the sight of, feels his shortcomings. It’s not your body that’s the issue, it’s the way you look at it.
Have you ever looked in the mirror and doubted your own attractiveness? I know I have. I used to think I was too tall, too slim, too pale, not hairy enough.
But after 2 decades as a popular male to male sex worker, I’ve realised that I’m not the best judge. Many men said I was handsome—their “type”—and a few said the opposite.
Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder and who am I to argue with that?
Spending a few hours naked with me, with no clothes to hide behind, there’s freedom… to see and be seen, without judgement; to compare and accept flaws or imperfections… and to honestly appreciate the positive.
You’ll quickly discover I have a special talent for making even the most reserved man feel completely at ease and comfortable in his own skin.
Our time together is not about whether we find one another sexually attractive. It’s about being ourselves, as we really are.
Openly looking at male bodies
Wanting to see, to be seen and to touch are aspects of bicurious exploration and self-discovery… even when they don’t lead to sex.
Do you wish you could openly look at another naked man in the flesh, without embarrassment or fear? Have you never seen another erection apart from your own? You’re not alone.
Have you too wanted to inspect all the usually hidden parts of another’s man’s body, to ask questions or make realistic comparisons with your own?
Rather than worrying about your cock, balls, arse, chest, waist or whatever part you like best or least, you can discover how similar or dissimilar you are… and why none of that matters as you learn to accept what can or what cannot be changed.
Revealing your arousal
Being naked with another man might make you feel vulnerable or uncomfortably exposed, especially when you have an erection. Shared nudity is a sensual experience, so we’re naturally bound to get hard. Why fight it?
After all, if you have to concentrate on not being aroused when you’re naked, how can you focus on talking about what’s important?
I encourage you to openly display your arousal, enjoy your erections as they rise and fall and look where you like… and we may touch too though this is not a sex session.
Are you ready to see and be seen?
When we strip away the social expectations of how our bodies are “meant” to look or how men are supposed to behave, we are left with our true selves.
We can see ourselves—and be seen—for who we really are, without the masks we often wear to fit in or please others.
No need to be concerned with appearing “masculine” or “macho”. No need to worry about impressing anyone.
Let us celebrate the male body in its most natural state. Let us challenge the notion that our worth is tied to our physical appearance. Or that how others see us should have an impact on our self-confidence or on how we value ourselves.
A genuine pleasure to meet you, Geoffrey! It was like sharing a flirtatious chat with a nudist friend I hadn’t seen in a while. Our naughtiness and laughter, even our serious conversations were a revelation. I’ve never relaxed so quickly with another man.