When people ignore your intelligence: the challenge for a smart, muscled man

As a smart man who also puts a lot of effort into staying fit, it’s a real challenge when others ignore my intelligence based solely on my looks.

In social situations, conversations can feel one-dimensional. There’s much more to me than what’s on the surface and I want to share my thoughts and ideas.

That’s why I turned to Male Mind Massage.

I’m a talkative exhibitionist

I’ll admit I’m an exhibitionist: I love being naked and looked at. At 42, I’m in the best shape of my life—fit, healthy and proud of showing off the body I’ve worked so hard to maintain.

I’ve always been talkative, with plenty of opinions and interests to share. People tend to focus on the surface—the exterior—but I have just as much to say as I have to show.

When I first met Geoffrey, I immediately felt at ease. He’s older but sharp—wise in a way that only someone with life experience can be.

We stripped down and settled in and it wasn’t long before we were diving into all kinds of topics.

History, politics, science, books we’ve both read, films we’ve loved.

It was such a relief to speak intelligently—no dumbing down or having to explain concepts—just two smart, naked guys bouncing ideas off each other.

What surprised me most was how naturally the conversation flowed. He wasn’t just listening; he was genuinely interested and knowledgeable.

He gave me a few new ideas to ponder and I hope I gave him some too.

A refreshing, laid-back afternoon

And it was delightful to be with someone who genuinely appreciated both my body and my mind.

Here was a man who not only understood the effort I put into maintaining my physique but admired it openly, enjoying the opportunity to express his appreciation by touching my body however I asked.

There was no awkwardness, no need for small talk—just easy conversation. For once, I was truly seen, valued for both my hard work and intellect.

It felt good to be in the company of someone who recognised and respected all the parts that make me who I am.

I left feeling more relaxed, stimulated and satisfied in ways I hadn’t anticipated.