Beyond Embarrassment
The Foundation Of Trust In A Unique Practice
The Practice of Peace, with its deep exploration of intimacy, stillness, and touch, is grounded in Geoffrey’s extensive experience as both a male masseur and sex educator.
For many men, issues of intimacy lie buried beneath layers of conditioning, silence, and shame. Honest conversation about them can feel risky, even perilous.
Geoffrey’s twenty-five years of embodied practice dissolve that fear.
His rare synthesis of tactile knowledge and emotional clarity creates an atmosphere of openness where a man can speak and be met without judgement — a space where embarrassment loses its power.
The Embodied Wisdom of the Male Masseur
A male bodyworker’s understanding of the physical and emotional landscape of intimacy forms a potent foundation for trust.
For decades, Geoffrey has worked with men in settings that require both vulnerability and clear boundaries.
This practice moves beyond theory into embodied wisdom — the quiet knowledge of how the male body holds tension, shame, and unspoken feeling.
Through this depth of experience, he recognises the subtleties of intentional touch, the physiology of anxiety, and the way years of suppression leave traces in posture and breath.
Men often view their bodies as tools of performance rather than sources of connection. Geoffrey’s familiarity with the male form — free from aesthetic or moral judgement — reflects a man’s body back to him with acceptance rather than appraisal.
In this mirror, a man rediscovers the simple dignity of inhabiting himself.
The Clear Communication of the Sex Educator
Geoffrey’s parallel experience as a sex educator further fortifies this trust. True sex education is not mechanical instruction but the normalisation of human experience through factual clarity and compassion.
His long practice of speaking openly about intimacy, desire, and anxiety ensures that difficult subjects are handled with fluency and ease.
Men find, often for the first time, that they can articulate private fears or curiosities without awkwardness or shame.
This clarity is not merely verbal; it dismantles misinformation and myth. In a world where male sexuality is distorted by performance culture and silence, Geoffrey offers steady, evidence-based guidance.
The conversation becomes an act of liberation — an opportunity to reclaim knowledge from taboo. Embarrassment dissolves in the presence of simple truth.
The Synergy of Touch and Talk
The meeting of these two disciplines — bodywork and education — forms the distinctive pulse of the Practice of Peace.
Touch and talk are not separate modalities but complementary languages.
As a man speaks about his anxieties or histories, the body simultaneously experiences reassurance through calm contact. The mind and the body are thus invited to listen to one another.
The result is not catharsis but integration — an alignment of intellect, emotion, and sensation. The body understands what words alone cannot teach.
This synergy reveals intimacy as a holistic practice rather than a set of separate skills. It restores continuity between thought, feeling, and touch — a unity many men have never known.
The Foundation of Trust
Geoffrey’s decades of experience as both masseur and educator are the crucible in which the Practice of Peace was forged. His embodied knowledge of male physicality, joined with his precision in language, creates an environment of unparalleled safety and depth.
In this space, men are free to drop their armour, to speak their truths without embarrassment, and to encounter themselves without disguise.
The result is a quiet recalibration — a relationship with intimacy grounded not in performance, but in authentic presence.
I always kept the physical and emotional parts of my intimacy completely separate. Geoffrey’s experience as a masseur and sex educator wasn’t just a resume; it was the bridge that finally connected my two worlds. For the first time, I saw how to communicate with my body and how to feel with my words.
