For Curious Yet Uncertain Men
Your Most Frequent Questions
These are the kinds of questions men ask when they’re curious yet uncertain and based on real messages received over the decades.
Nothing here is theoretical or rehearsed. It’s simply how the first conversation often begins: one man asking what it really means to be at ease.
Hi Geoffrey,
I came across your website a few weeks ago and I’ve been thinking about it ever since. It sounds too good to be true and I have a few questions.
So, to be clear—what’s the deal with the nudity? Are we just both naked the whole time, or what? I guess I’m trying to figure out the rules here. What are we actually doing?
And what about touch? I don’t want to cross lines. Like, can I touch you? And, you know… is that okay?
And what about… sex? I mean, are we doing anything like that? You talk about touch, and I’m just wondering where the line is.
I guess there’s no pressure to go deeper than I’m comfortable with, right? Like, I’m there because I’m curious, but I don’t want it to feel like I’m being pushed into something.
John
Hello John
It’s simple, really. We’re both here to step out of the usual pressures of what we think should happen.
If at any point you want to stop, we stop. No questions, no disappointment. It’s your space too.
Nudity isn’t a rule, it‘s an option — a pleasurable, relaxing way to drop the layers we usually hide behind. If you want to be partly or fully naked, we are. If you’d rather not, that’s fine too.
You don’t have to earn the moment or explain yourself, so there’s nothing to prove.
Touch is natural, but never assumed. So long as it feels right we can touch one another. We might share chemistry, warmth, curiosity, arousal; that’s just being human.
But this practice is about being seen, being accepted, and learning how to rest without needing anything to happen next.
So we just let time unfold, quietly. No rush. Just two men sharing space without having to be anyone else.
