Curious about m2m sex? But need confidence before you explore?

30 Aug 2024  1 min

Are you curious about sex between men? Do you want more confidence before you decide to go any further exploring your sexual interest in men?

Imagine having an uninhibited, broad-minded and candid conversation about male-to-male sex while naked with an experienced man who knows sex… like the back of his hand.

Learn about sex between men, break down misconceptions and reduce shame all while having fun looking at and touching real male bodies.

Discuss what you’re comfortable with, what you’re curious about and what’s off-limits. And get honest and reliable answers that satisfy your curiosity.

Start with the basics

Have you ever seen or touched an erect penis that isn’t your own? Ask about male anatomy and how it responds to different types of stimulation.

Male bodies have many sensitive areas beyond the obvious. Discuss lesser-known erogenous zones and techniques for stimulation.

Discuss proper condom use, the importance of lubricant and other barrier methods.

For anal play especially, proper preparation is key. Ask about douching, diet considerations and other hygiene practices that can make encounters more enjoyable and worry-free.

The art of m2m sex

Inquire about various sexual activities between men. From mutual masturbation to oral sex—kissing, sucking cock or rimming—to fingering, dildoing or fucking a man’s arse, I can explain the mechanics, sensations and considerations for each act.

Discuss "top" and "bottom" roles, as well as versatility. Learn about power dynamics in male-male encounters and how they might differ from heterosexual experiences.

Ask about sex toys designed for men, from butt plugs to prostate massagers to cock rings. Ask about fetishes and kinks. Role playing and fantasies. Learn how these can enhance pleasure and be incorporated safely into sexual play.

Discuss the difference in sensations between ejaculation and a full body orgasm as I guide you to discover how to prolong your pleasure without coming.

Preparing for challenges

You may have concerns about erectile function or stamina. Ask about strategies and techniques for maintaining arousal.

Discuss managing nerves, setting boundaries and communicating effectively with partners.

Learn about gay bars, bathhouses and dating apps.

Ask how real-life encounters might differ from pornography or your imagination.

Discuss how to meet potential partners and navigate the dating scene as an older bicurious man.

Don’t be embarrassed to ask detailed questions—that’s what I’m here for. Getting accurate information can help you feel more prepared and confident as you explore your sexuality.

The things you know about arousing and sexually satisfying a man are intriguing. You must have led a very interesting life!