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The big issue of penis size - how small is too small?

The big issue of penis size. How small is too small if you are a real man? Or how big? And does it really matter?

Some men are convinced that their penises are not long or thick enough. That, if they had bigger penises life would be better, more pleasurable, and more "normal".

If you're that kind of man, you are probably focussing on the wrong issue. The size of your penis is largely irrelevant when it comes to enjoying great sex.

A big penis is no indicator of anything

The idea seems to be that if you have a big penis, you can feel big about yourself, proud of your penis.

But if you have a small one then you should feel ashamed, inadequate and inferior and immediately set about trying to enlarge it, no matter the cost to your body, your penis or your self esteem.

Otherwise, you'll never be a "real" man.

Of course, measuring your penis in the first place is one of the easiest ways of worrying and depressing yourself. Especially if you compare your findings with your estimate of how big the "average" penis is supposed to be.

Facts, figures and assumptions

When limp, most penises measure somewhere between 1 and 4.5 inches (2.5cm and 11.4cm).

When erect, they normally vary between 3.5 and 7 inches (8.8cm and 17.5cm).

Maybe. These figures are from the only semi-reliable survey ever conducted. Only 3,500 North American men were interviewed by Dr Kinsey in 1948. As all the men self-reported their measurements, the results are largely useless.

Additional surveys have recently been conducted. But as each of them relies on self-reporting from the participants (and who wants to own up to a small penis?), the results tell us nothing useful.

Growers and showers

In my long experience massaging men, I have found it is impossible to tell from a limp penis how big it will be when erect. Some men appear to have a enormous penis when it is limp but then it doesn't grow much bigger when erect.

Other limp penises seem to be miniscule yet grow to be very large when he is aroused.

I was recently massaging a man who appeared to have just such a tiny penis. A little shrivelled thing that was dwarfed by the size of his very large testicles. Of course, it makes no difference to me, as I enjoy massaging penises of all shapes and sizes.

However, as he became more aroused, his penis grew very large and thick. He told me he worried that it was too big and that he had difficulties finding partners he could fuck as it was so large.

Penises are affected by temperature

In a steamy change room, penises may dangle and droop nicely appearing to a casual glance to be huge. But catch them in a draught of cold air or dip them in a swimming pool and they'll soon shrivel up to nothing. Nervous situations don't promote the profile of your penis either.

The grass is usually not greener

If you are worried about the size of your penis, there's not much you can do to change matters.

You may find any number of "proven" techniques to increase the length and thickness of your penis. Jelquing, penis pumps, herbal supplements or surgery. Sadly, these are offered by quacks (medical frauds) who want to make money from your lack of self-confidence.

Not only do such procedures not work, but you can end up with a damaged penis that not only looks ugly and no longer works as it should. And you may experience a considerable amount of pain or discomfort.

Enjoy the penis in your hands

Be satisfied with, and learn how to enjoy, what you have. You will meet "size queens" who refuse to have sex with someone who doesn't measure up to their ideas of the "right" penis size. Steer clear of such men and women.

Instead, seek out men who want to enjoy sensual pleasures with all of you - body and mind - and you will have a much more satisfying sex life. Learn to be an attentive, sensual lover: focus on the pleasure you can give with all of you, rather than only your penis.

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