I've spent many hours compiling playlists of sensual music to soothe, relax and stimulate a man during one of my erotic massage or body play sessions.
I've had many massages from other professional bodyworkers and I've usually been disappointed with their music choices. Whale calls are all very well in their way but not, I think, conducive to relaxation or sensual pleasure. And the sound of waterfalls or running streams only makes me want to go to the toilet.
A refined approach to musical selections
Performing erotic massage, like practising yoga, is similar to dancing: a sequence of fluid, sensual movements in time to music that enhances the experience.
Over many years, as I have refined my erotic massage sequence, I have selected music that allows me to move my hands and body fluidly across your skin.
Each of the several playlists I have created is designed to help with the flow of my hands on your body. Following the rhythms and tempo of the music, without ever losing an intimate connection with your skin.
Some of the music is sensually suggestive, some is humorous. All is chosen to enhance your erotic sensations.
Arriving, undressing and lying face down
You may not notice the first pieces of music as you undress and prepare for your massage. You may be too nervous. Overwhelmed by all the sexy pictures you can see on the walls of my massage room. Adjusting to the lower lighting. Still not separated from the outside world.
But if you listen, you will hear Peggy King inviting you to "Make Yourself Comfortable", as you undress and prepare for the stimulating exploration ahead.
Once you are lying face down on my very comfortable massage table, you will already have begun to relax. And my musical selections are designed to promote calm and serenity.
This is often when a man will tell me how nervous he felt at the start but how he already feels more at ease. And I may not have touched his naked body yet.
Slowing your heart beat
The first sequence will gradually slow your heart-beat, so that you feel as though you are sinking into a cloud. There are no irritating breaks in the music as each tune eases gently into the next. Carefully selected for similarity of rhythm, tone and harmony.
You may try to concentrate on the music in an attempt to work out how I am influencing your reactions. But you do not hear the music out of context. As my hands manipulate your body, you cannot help but be aroused by the complex interplay of stimulations.
As I move around the table, caressing and exploring, you may hear a waltz or some other classical melody.
Chyi Yu singing a beautiful Chinese lullaby. Anoushka Shankar skilfully strumming her sitar.
Debbie Wiseman advising that "Nothing Should Reveal The Body But The Body". Scenes from movies, strains from opera or ballet.
Piano, violin, cello, mandolin, flute, oboe. "Sleeping Beauty" by Karma. Voices, like Lisa Gerrard's, that are indistinguishable from instruments.
No piece plays too long to be monotonous. And there are brief, suggestive refrains that change the pattern of my movements.
You cannot help but lose yourself in my attempts to subtly manipulate and deepen your relaxation. The massage room is a comfortable temperature to offset the coolness of the oil on your skin. The lights are dimmed, with no distracting light from outside. You may discern a faint waft of cleansing and relaxing sandalwood.
You may open your eyes and watch me in the mirrors as I dance around your body. Reach out a hand to caress, explore and encourage me.
Music that helps us to slide
When it is time for you to turn over, the music has already begun to change, picking up in tempo and slightly increasing in volume.
There's already a beat that seems to pulse at the same rate as the throbbing of your penis. Now, you will return from that deeply relaxing zone, that half-dozing state, and really wake up.
During a body slide, the first sequence comprises long, slow harmonies that allow me to move my naked body across yours. Matching the steadily increasing intensity of our shared intimacy. "Kisskiss" by Parov Stelar.
As we begin to play with one another's body, you may feel an increasing desire to do as Touch & Go suggest and go "Straight To Number One".
As we explore, you'll feel encouraged to go deeper with Gare Du Nord's suggestive "You're So Tight" and "Push The Feeling" by The Nightcrawlers or "Anything You Want" by Belleruche.
Slow and easy
We may pause to get our breathe back and talk for a while: "Have You Got A Story For Me?" by John Barry.
As I progressively explore, caress and fondle your erection, the tempo of the music speeds up one moment, slows down the next.
Deep Sensation will croon "Don't Stop" as my fingers delve to discover a stretch of sensitive skin.
Now there is a piece that is fast - perhaps "Hard, Fast & Beautiful" by My Life With The Thrill Kill Kult - that guides my hands in time. Up and down your shaft, stroking and teasing the slippery head of your cock.
Moving your body in time to the music
You may now realise you are moving in time with the music, spreading your legs, inviting me to explore. Or trying to push your pelvis up to meet my downward strokes, to get more of your cock between my palms.
Your own hands or fingers poking about my hidden depths, following the beat of the music.
But I'm not ready for you to come just yet, so another track - "Flow" by Undercover Agency - will be slower, more languid.
Easing you back from the brink, keeping you on that delicious edge before cumming.
Then as you gradually build towards a mind-blowing ejaculatory release - "Joy On A Stick" by Mambayaga Project - the tempo matches your increasing urgency to climax.
And, when you do finally cum, you'll be urged on with "Keep It Coming" by Vibe Delight or "Some Like It Hot" by Club Des Belugas.
Erotic music that goes on and on
Each erotic massage music sequence lasts at least 2 hours longer than the longest erotic session I offer. So if you decide you want to extend our time together, there is always plenty of music.
And, with speakers placed all around my house, there is nowhere (aside from under the shower) where you cannot hear my carefully selected musical offering.
I loved your choice of music. And the way you moved around my body in time to the music is divine. It's like some kind of erotic dance.