How can I get over my performance anxiety during sex?
Stop performing!
Sex is not a competition. It is not a game to be played until there is a winner.
Unless you are on stage, you won't have an audience and there will be no clapping at the end. You might hear some cheering but that'll be from your partner.
There is much more to sex than intercourse. Explore kissing, hugging, massage, oral, licking and fingering one another. Try out sexual fantasies, dressing up and role playing. Use dildos or other toys.
And remember, sex is meant to be fun, so don't forget to smile at one another.
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