Newcomers to male erotic massage
It's natural to feel a little nervous before your first nude, fully body, erotic experience with another man. But you're not alone in wanting to explore your sexuality. Here are answers to questions from men on a similar journey of sexual self-discovery.
Will
we be alone?
Yes. I live alone, so no roommates are hanging around and I book appointments at least a day apart, so you will not bump into anyone.
Do
I have to be certain age or weight or look?
No. As long as you are above the legal age (16 years old in NSW), it doesn't matter to me how old you are, how you look, your weight, nationality, height, education, creed, career, class or sexual preference.
Can
I bring someone with me?
Yes. You can bring a male friend to share a body play session. You cannot bring your wife or girlfriend.
I have always wanted to...
Can you help with my fantasy?
If you want to try something safe, exciting and unusual, please ask. I am very open-minded and uninhibited.
Am
I allowed to touch you?
You can touch me with your hands, fingers, body or mouth just about any way and anywhere you want. You set the pace: I'll politely decline if anything is unsafe or too much.
Are
you clean and safe?
Yes. I wash regularly and always before a session - inside and out - wear deodorant, have regular medical checkups, do not engage in unprotected anal intercourse nor use intravenous drugs. I also write about male sexual health issues, so feel free to ask questions.
Can
I shower before the massage?
Yes, you can shower before and after the massage. Fresh, clean towels and unscented liquid soaps are provided.
Are you discreet? Will my secret
life with you remain secret?
Of course. I am always very careful to protect your privacy and mine. I will not call you nor send you emails without permission. Everything that happens when we are together is legal and remains confidential.
Can
I come to see you regularly?
You're welcome to visit as often as you like. If you book into a Mind and Body massage, you can come for a visit monthly.
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"Your whole approach is soothing and non-threatening. It was great you were naked too. Great music, the dimmed lights, everything was excellent."
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